Just a brief history of the'Big Blob'and me. We have been married for 10 years, a very turbulent 10 years, and have 2 fabulous kids who I'll call Max and Lola for my blog purposes.Lola is 6 years old and is a wonderfully expressive kid, who loves dancing, performing singing ,all to an audience , the more the merrier. No shrinking violet there then. She is a very loving child, who seems very grounded, unbelievably,and is a great joy to me. Max is an explosive 2 year old,who probably kisses and hugs me at least 50 times a day !Max is not without his little problems. He is at the moment having various tests done as it is suspected he may be autistic.He can have good days and bad and I am permanently monitoring his moods, what he eats , how often he sleeps etc to try and get to the bottom of things. I also have a 17 year old son from a previous relationship, a very clever , bright boy who i'll call Levi , who has just landed himself a really good jobs with mega prospects. He did contemplate Uni, and may go in a few years time , depends on how well he is doing in his job.
Well back to the Big Blob, what a waste of space he is.We married 10 years ago in sunny Miami both on our third chance at marriage. I had married young and neither marriage had lasted more that 12 months, my fault really. The first was a case of taming a bad boy , which I did then quickly realised it was not the man I fell in love with. The second was an excuse for a good day out , and we were more like brother and sister. But just like brother and sister we fell out regularly and quite amicably decided to call it a day.Then the Big Blob entered my life, all 18 stone of him.And things would never be the same again